One of the biggest parts of the wedding ceremony is “The Vows”. Let’s face it, it’s what everyone came to hear. You can have nice prayers or readings in your ceremony, but what everyone leans into, and what gives everyone a tear in their eye is the words you say to your partner. And this is the framework for how you will treat your partner for the rest of your life, so it better be good. No pressure!

I always tell my couples that you already know what to say to your partner. You already know how to talk to them in that special “language” between the two of you, and probably have already given your lifelong commitment long before your wedding day. But this is your chance to sum it all up and wrap it with a golden bow, sealing your promises to each other. It makes it super real when you make a formal declaration (even if it is to the wind).

When it comes to writing wedding vows, most people stare at a blank document not knowing where to begin. It seems like a daunting task, trying to put your relationship into words, define your future, and show your partner the kind of person you want to be. You doubt your ability to express yourself and worry about how you can’t write anything worthy enough for your partner (or family) to hear on the big day.

But I know that is absolutely not true. You have everything you need inside you – you just have to gently bring it to the surface and then write it up. Easier said than done. And vice versa, you might say…

Haven’t you secretly hoped that someone could guide your pen and inspire you to create vows that you’re excited to share with your sweetheart and guests? And then help you deliver it flawlessly?

Fortunately, I have helped hundreds of couples find the right words to say on the big day, and with just a few clicks, I can help you too. Rather than dreading this amazing moment in your life, why not put in a little bit of work and confidently express yourself in a natural way that is personal and meaningful for you?

And maybe with a little bit more rizz than the “as long as you both shall live…” kind of thing. After all, your partner deserves to hear you say something hearfelt and appropriate on that special day, so the stakes are kinda high, right?

Let me ask you this:
~Have you thought about what you really want to say?
~Do you know how to make it special while speaking your truth?
~Are you nervous to speak in public?
~Does the thought of messing up make you cringe?

If your gut reaction to any of those statements is anything but “I totally got this!” I’m afraid you might be missing an easy opportunitiy to make sure you’re stepping up to the challenge on the big day. And like most newly engaged couples, you’re busy with not only planning a wedding, but planning a future together as well, so it’s easy to put this on the back burner – and then rush to write them up last minute.

But what if the whole vow writing process could be done in just a few short online steps?

I have created an online course for you “How to Say I Do: Vow Writing Workshop” that will help your vows write themselves. Seriously. In addition to the lessons and questionnaires, I’ll do the heavy writing for you by editing your own words into a working vow draft. And then help you refine it until it feels genuine and comfortable for you.

From brainstorming what you love about your partner to how to speak in public, to printing them into cute booklets, we will make it personal, memorable, and heartfelt. Plus, your family and friends will think you’re brilliant.

It would be my pleasure to work with you, and help you express the “to have and to hold” part with confidence, excitement and even more love. Sign up below to get started.

Best of luck on the big day,

Vicki

You can work with me whether or not I am officiating your wedding. I’m happy to help!

The “How To Say I Do” Vow Writing Workshop contains the following modules:

  1. Inspiration– get started brainstorming and see examples of vows
  2. Declaration – create your vows with online help
  3. Celebration – tips for public speaking and final edits

You and your spouse will each receive:

  • One Year Online Access
  • Working Vow Drafts
  • Printed Vow Booklets

Sign up now to get started writing your promises for happily ever after.